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HURSDAY, DECEMBER 4, 2014 SPECIAL ADVERTISING SECTION OF THE MORNING CALL

HOLIDAY MEMORIES Your wish list: Is it rude
to share what you want?
Design

student’s gift On Christmas morning By Danielle Braff
fits to a T my dearest wish came true.
My parents gave me the Special to Tribune Newspapers
Shutterstock steel T square. My younger
In about 1955, when I sister and two younger Holiday season is upon you’re sure that someone is MARTINE DOUCET/GETTY
was 19 years old and was a I already had a wooden T brothers got their own us, which means that the going to be getting you a
sophomore at the Philadel- square, but to be up to share of wonderful gifts endless barrage of odd- present — and only if here to stay. In a 2012
phia Museum School of professional standard, I that year in our Allentown smelling soaps, ill-fitting you’re certain — it’s OK to survey by CreditDonkey
Art, I had one item on my really wanted a steel T living room, but nobody sweaters, aged fruitcakes ask whether the person .com, a credit card compar-
Christmas list that I wanted square. They were expen- could have been happier and regifted wallets is just wants some guidance in ison and financial educa-
more than anything else. I sive, and I couldn’t afford than I was. around the corner. choosing your gift or wants tion website, 50 percent of
was majoring in advertis- one. to surprise you. people surveyed said they
ing design and our in- Now there are only a Does it have to be this had gotten a present that
structors told us that the few things that I still own way? Is it really bad form A lot depends on your was regifted, 34 percent
use of the fine quality tools that I did then, but there to ask for what we want, relationship with the gift- said they had regifted a gift
would help us to produce are two things I still have instead of getting what we giver. With a spouse, you and 83 percent said it was
professional quality work. that I use and cherish. One don’t? can be more honest with fine to get a regift.
is the wooden drawing the request, she said,
table my parents bought Actually, we can make though people should Jodi Newbern, author of
me in 1954, and the other our wishes known — but always leave their partners “Regifting Revival! A Guide
is my steel T square. It still only if we’re asked first, some wiggle room. to Reusing Gifts Gra-
looks exactly the same. I said Mindy Lockard, ciously” (Synergy Books),
don’t. founder of The Gracious “When we microman- agreed that regifting is
Girl, an online etiquette age (gift-giving), we rob acceptable — unless it’s an
Suzanne Wertman Spector, community based in Ore- them of the joy of going out item that’s neither well-
Encinitas, California gon. Then the conversation and enjoying the process,” thought-out nor meaning-
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Whitehall, PA 18052 fruitcake that always or relative — or know hurt, she said.
seems to be going around,” someone who does — who
610-336-9960 Pachter said. feels the need to reach into When all else fails, you
that never-ending present can always opt out gra-
This also means think- pantry and regift some- ciously, Lockard said.
ing about your wish list thing. Suggest getting together, so
ahead of time and having a you can focus on your
few items or categories in a But regifting seems to be relationship and appreci-
range of prices. ate what is most important.

Expressing your wishes

Of course, not every-
body asks first.

“We can’t expect people
to be mind readers or to
pick up on hints,” Lockard
said. When we do, we tend
to be let down.

That’s where communi-
cation is key, she added. If

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